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		<title>By: john cave osborne</title>
		<link>http://www.ivyleagueinsecurities.com/2010/02/confessions-of-infidelity/#comment-3793</link>
		<dc:creator>john cave osborne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Feb 2010 18:30:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>first off, i think balance is hard. right now, i&#039;ve got a sixty-hour-a-week job, a weekly writing gig (that i just picked up), MY blog (to keep people coming back, i need at least two solid posts a week), and my book (which is now available!).

oh, and don&#039;t forget about Lovie, Pookie, and the wee two-year-old trio. balancing all that? very tough. 

as far as balancing blog and other writing...also tough. i frequently hear bloggers talk about that book they&#039;ve never written, the one they&#039;re quite certain is inside of them. my two cents, and my two cents only: unless you spend some significant time wrestling with blank pages, no book&#039;s gonna come out, unless, of course, it&#039;s a book which reads like a blog, filled with posts that double as short chapters. 

it wasn&#039;t until my book was totally complete when i began to blog. now that i see how time consuming (and self consuming) blogging is, i&#039;m glad i didn&#039;t start blogging while i was writing it, or it probably wouldn&#039;t have ever gotten done.

my point? i&#039;m not mad at you for cheating on me. (whore) if you didn&#039;t, there&#039;s a strong chance i&#039;d only get to read one of your books, and i want more than that. 

GL w/ your next one. you rock.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>first off, i think balance is hard. right now, i&#8217;ve got a sixty-hour-a-week job, a weekly writing gig (that i just picked up), MY blog (to keep people coming back, i need at least two solid posts a week), and my book (which is now available!).</p>
<p>oh, and don&#8217;t forget about Lovie, Pookie, and the wee two-year-old trio. balancing all that? very tough. </p>
<p>as far as balancing blog and other writing&#8230;also tough. i frequently hear bloggers talk about that book they&#8217;ve never written, the one they&#8217;re quite certain is inside of them. my two cents, and my two cents only: unless you spend some significant time wrestling with blank pages, no book&#8217;s gonna come out, unless, of course, it&#8217;s a book which reads like a blog, filled with posts that double as short chapters. </p>
<p>it wasn&#8217;t until my book was totally complete when i began to blog. now that i see how time consuming (and self consuming) blogging is, i&#8217;m glad i didn&#8217;t start blogging while i was writing it, or it probably wouldn&#8217;t have ever gotten done.</p>
<p>my point? i&#8217;m not mad at you for cheating on me. (whore) if you didn&#8217;t, there&#8217;s a strong chance i&#8217;d only get to read one of your books, and i want more than that. </p>
<p>GL w/ your next one. you rock.</p>
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		<title>By: love letter* &#171; my mumblings</title>
		<link>http://www.ivyleagueinsecurities.com/2010/02/confessions-of-infidelity/#comment-3674</link>
		<dc:creator>love letter* &#171; my mumblings</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 14:20:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] love&#160;letter*  *this post was inspired by this suggestion. and then by this post. and then by this unconventional entry. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] love&nbsp;letter*  *this post was inspired by this suggestion. and then by this post. and then by this unconventional entry. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Jen</title>
		<link>http://www.ivyleagueinsecurities.com/2010/02/confessions-of-infidelity/#comment-3473</link>
		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:47:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, I am JUST NOW getting to read this. I have that novel. It sits. At the end of my bed. It&#039;s pages get tossed about, misnumbered, rearranged. It&#039;s characters play in my head. 
It has remained the same 40,000 words for many years. But someday. Some. Day. (A love affair awaits.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, I am JUST NOW getting to read this. I have that novel. It sits. At the end of my bed. It&#8217;s pages get tossed about, misnumbered, rearranged. It&#8217;s characters play in my head.<br />
It has remained the same 40,000 words for many years. But someday. Some. Day. (A love affair awaits.)</p>
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		<title>By: Linda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Linda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 06:53:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aidan, I think about this all the time. I&#039;m quite attached to my blog. Hell, I&#039;m quite attached to YOUR blog, and Kristin&#039;s blog, and Amber&#039;s blog, and BLW&#039;s blog, and everyone else&#039;s. This is more than blogging at this point, it&#039;s checking in with friends, it&#039;s seeing what&#039;s on everyone&#039;s minds, what&#039;s going on in their lives.

But - and there is one - I also have a book. A memoir and it sits on my computer casting baleful glares at me. I&#039;ve always kind of considered myself a life support system for that book, which is written but needs a good edit and then needs to go out into a bunch of agents&#039; slush piles, I guess. And instead of find myself consumed day after day after day with my blog and the blogs of my friends, so that I never get to that edit.

So you&#039;re right. I have to balance or pick or cheat or something. There&#039;s only one of me and two siren calls. Which will get me where I need to go?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aidan, I think about this all the time. I&#8217;m quite attached to my blog. Hell, I&#8217;m quite attached to YOUR blog, and Kristin&#8217;s blog, and Amber&#8217;s blog, and BLW&#8217;s blog, and everyone else&#8217;s. This is more than blogging at this point, it&#8217;s checking in with friends, it&#8217;s seeing what&#8217;s on everyone&#8217;s minds, what&#8217;s going on in their lives.</p>
<p>But &#8211; and there is one &#8211; I also have a book. A memoir and it sits on my computer casting baleful glares at me. I&#8217;ve always kind of considered myself a life support system for that book, which is written but needs a good edit and then needs to go out into a bunch of agents&#8217; slush piles, I guess. And instead of find myself consumed day after day after day with my blog and the blogs of my friends, so that I never get to that edit.</p>
<p>So you&#8217;re right. I have to balance or pick or cheat or something. There&#8217;s only one of me and two siren calls. Which will get me where I need to go?</p>
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		<title>By: Deena</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 21:02:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love this one! Its funny, I purposely did NOT read any until I wrote my own. I wrote to my Blog too but not to confess to any literary infidelity, but just to tell my blog I love it! Great post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this one! Its funny, I purposely did NOT read any until I wrote my own. I wrote to my Blog too but not to confess to any literary infidelity, but just to tell my blog I love it! Great post!</p>
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		<title>By: Amy at Never-True Tales</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy at Never-True Tales</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 22:34:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am terribly unfaithful, cheating left and right! Not only do I have several blogs/sites, but I have two novels and short stories and poems. Heh. It&#039;s the only area of my life in which I&#039;m not completely one-minded and loyal!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am terribly unfaithful, cheating left and right! Not only do I have several blogs/sites, but I have two novels and short stories and poems. Heh. It&#8217;s the only area of my life in which I&#8217;m not completely one-minded and loyal!</p>
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		<title>By: Kate T.W.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kate T.W.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 09:09:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>On a nearly perfect day I work on the novel in the morning and the blog at night... I adore your analogy.

The blog often gets shafted for other writing projects.  Sometimes its the other way around, too.   I don&#039;t feel I have the &#039;energy&#039; to write other things, but can somehow find myself spending six hours on a blog entry...  I think that&#039;s when I&#039;m feeling creatively a bit stuck.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On a nearly perfect day I work on the novel in the morning and the blog at night&#8230; I adore your analogy.</p>
<p>The blog often gets shafted for other writing projects.  Sometimes its the other way around, too.   I don&#8217;t feel I have the &#8216;energy&#8217; to write other things, but can somehow find myself spending six hours on a blog entry&#8230;  I think that&#8217;s when I&#8217;m feeling creatively a bit stuck.</p>
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		<title>By: Allison</title>
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		<dc:creator>Allison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 06:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful. Don&#039;t worry one bit about &quot;cheating.&quot; Who knows, maybe your blog will help your novel and vice versa?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful. Don&#8217;t worry one bit about &#8220;cheating.&#8221; Who knows, maybe your blog will help your novel and vice versa?</p>
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		<title>By: Jack</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jack</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 04:09:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I write so many different blogs I make Tiger look like a nun.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I write so many different blogs I make Tiger look like a nun.</p>
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		<title>By: Corinne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Corinne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 01:47:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Loved this :) 
I&#039;m struggling with this... I have a little creative writing class that I&#039;m taking online, and while I want to give it my all (and all.... meaning... 1/2 an hour twice a week as it&#039;s not what I was hoping/expecting it to bed...) I still write my blog first when I have time to sit. And read others... always!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Loved this <img src='http://www.ivyleagueinsecurities.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
I&#8217;m struggling with this&#8230; I have a little creative writing class that I&#8217;m taking online, and while I want to give it my all (and all&#8230;. meaning&#8230; 1/2 an hour twice a week as it&#8217;s not what I was hoping/expecting it to bed&#8230;) I still write my blog first when I have time to sit. And read others&#8230; always!</p>
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