Thank You, Team LAY!
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I have two words to utter on this fine Monday morning:
Thank you.
In case you missed it, there was a fascinating conversation in the ILI comment box last week about whether it is good to be “nice” or not. I encourage you to check it out if you haven’t yet. But in that original blog post of mine, I posed a question, an honest question that I was a bit afraid to ask:
How do I continue to promote my rookie novel Life After Yes in a non-offensive, yet effective way?
Here’s the deal. Here’s why I asked the above question in the first place. I am a new kid on the writing block. A rookie in this delightful game. And, frankly, I am thrilled beyond measure to have a uniform at all. But. Because I am a newbie, an unknown entity, it is hard – and understandably so – to gain exposure. I’ve been so excited to hear from so many people who have read Life After Yes and loved it, but the plain truth is that there are many many people who will never ever hear of my book or of me because that is the way things work. And this is not a sob story. No. This is reality.
But I am a scrappy little tomboy here and I’m not willing to play dead, to curl up in an air-conditioned corner and pray that strangers stumble upon my words. No. So I asked you guys for some advice, and, man oh man, did you come through. You were full of ideas, many of which I plan to follow through on! And let’s not veer too far from reality. Heeding your genius suggestions will most likely not morph me into the next J.K. Rowling (even though my name A.D. Rowley is auspiciously close), but it will help. Because of you and your thoughtful ideas, more people will meet Quinn and that simple fact? It makes me smile. So, one more time:
Thank you.
Here are some of the ideas you all proposed. I list them here because I honestly feel this blog post could prove useful for fellow bloggers and authors and people who would like to get the word out about their creations!
1. Blog Tour
When LAY first debuted, many of my loyal blogging buds wrote reviews of my book or interviewed me on their sites. (You know who you are and thank you!) The result was incredible! There was a tremendous amount of buzz about my book around its birthday. I was also fortunate enough that TLC Blog Tours set up a blog tour on my behalf. Here is the link. Here we are, two months later and I would love to keep touring! If you would like to interview me on your site (about the book or the writing process in general or insecurity or anything), please leave a comment or contact me! Also, if you plan to review or run a Q & A and would like to giveaway a copy of LAY, let me know and I can send one along.
2. Book Clubs
The “niceness” conversation last week was prompted by my visit to a wonderful book club outside of Chicago. It was absolutely fascinating for me to participate in a discussion of my creation and I would love to do this again. And again! If you have a book club in the NYC area and plan to read and talk about LAY, let me know and I will do my best to come (only if you would like me to)! If you have a book club anywhere else and would like me to participate via Skype or a call-in, let me know!
3. Guest Posts
If you would like me to write a guest post on your site (I will link my readers your way), please contact me. Again, I would be thrilled to write about the book, or about almost anything else (within reason!). OR and this is where it gets fun, if you would like to be considered for a guest post here on the weekends, please let me know. I have been planning this for a while, but, hey, let’s launch it now. Since I do not blog on weekends, I would love to make weekends my ILI Old School where I showcase your best archived posts (or original posts that tie in to the themes of this blog).
4. Tweet Ups
Twitter parties! I know that many of you are on Twitter and if you are not, I encourage you to join if only to attend one of my forthcoming Tweet Ups. How does this work? I pick a time and we all gather at our computers (hey, we are here anyway) and we chat via Twitter. About what? About Life After Yes. Yes, the book. But more so about life after yes – all of the issues and questions that come up in life after we commit – to a marriage, to a family, to a career. I will post more details about this, but I honestly think it will be fun and juicy.
5. LAY Ambassadors (Passing out free copies! Covertly leaving books in strategic places!)
How to get the word out and gain exposure? Give out copies of my book. For free. Yes, that’s right. For free. I have done this a handful of times now. I have walked up to strangers and said, “I just published my first book and I was wondering if you would like a copy?” And the recipients have been excited! I plan to do this some more particularly since LAY takes place on the Upper West Side of Manhattan where I live. But… This is where you guys come in. How fantastic would it be if I could do this – handing out copies of books or leaving them in strategic places – all over the country? If you read my book and enjoyed it and would like to be a LAY Ambassador, please contact me! I will go ahead an mail you a slew of copies to distribute where you live!
I know this post is a bit boring and technical and lacking existential vim and vigor. But this post is important to me. Because, honestly, I wanted to pause and thank you for your ideas and for your continued support. This might all be for naught (oddly love that word). These strategies might prove to do zip for my literary baby. But still. Still, there is something immensely encouraging about having a virtual team around me, shouting from the sidelines as I go to bat in this game for my very first time. Still, there is something vastly rewarding about standing up there, here, and swinging for the fences. Yes, even if I ultimately strike out.
I’m getting redundant here, but I love redundancy, so:
Thank you, Team LAY.
(Don’t worry. Tomorrow, I will abandon this self-promotional sludge and go back to clumsily contemplating the modern cosmos.)
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Please leave a comment and let me know if you have any thoughts or additional ideas! (Additionally, I plan to look into advertisements and video). Also, please leave a comment or email me at ivyleagueinsecurities [at] gmail [dot] com if you would like to:
- Interview me on your blog.
- Review LAY on your site.
- Guest post here or have me guest post chez toi.
- Host a book club discussion around LAY and have me visit in person or virtually.
- Attend a Twitter party. (What are ideal times during the week to host these?)
- Receive a bunch of free copies of LAY to distribute where you live.









Just another quick question – do you have a dedicated web site for LAY. I know that the one publisher I worked for set up a site for all the books. The problem is that a stagnant site is no good. Constant additions, social media, blogging as Quinn maybe would have to take place to keep people and search engines going to it.
I will help in whatever way I can. I was also serious before, pack up the girls and come upstate. We can go all over to small independent bookstores and to B&Ns.
Given that my kids are both connoisseurs of car/plane sickness, a drive to you might not be in the cards. I’d love to send you a slew of copies to distribute if you want? Also, I LOVE the idea of blogging/chatting as Quinn. I do not think I have the time to update another site, but maybe I could host the Tweet Ups as Quinn and people could hop on and ask Quinn why she did all the things she did during the course of LAY… This could be really fun and interesting. Thanks, Nicki for the great ideas!
I am more than happy to help in any way I can, Aidan. I have bought one copy and sent it off with a friend but am more than willing to get additional copies out there for you.
I love the idea of a Quinn Tweet-up!
Are you interested in marketing to my little island? If so, let me know how I can help.
I’ll come to tweet-ups if they’re in a halfway plausible timezone. I’m also pretty sure I can come up with a guest post that fits your themes.
It’s also time you sent a few copies to film directors: find someone who works in the style you’d like to see, and get mailing. Worst that can happen is a couple of extra copies of the book get out there… and best… well…
Rachel – yes, would love to market to your little island
I will do my best to schedule tweet ups that work for you and, yes, watch out film directors! Hey, it can’t hurt to think big and I believe that LAY is quite cinematic!
I have shared my book with 3 friends already and my daughter, 2 of which then bought their own copy from amazon. I would be honored to be a LAY ambassador! I think it’s a fabulous book. I live in a very educated (college town) rural town and book clubs here are abundant. Along with lots of Starbucks and other coffee houses where many folks laze around chatting, reading and hanging out. I have lots of ideas of great places to LAY some books…aside from my book club of course. I know they would really enjoy it.
Not to mention the giggles I would get from my husband for being a LAY ambassador. He might be a wee bit jealous. *giggle* *giggle*
I thought your book was FANTASTIC!
Thank you, Cathy! Thrilled to have you on board as a LAY ambassador and am honored that you will recommend my book to your book club. Mostly though, I am excited that you liked my story. Ultimately, it is about the story, isn’t it? But no reason this promotional stuff can’t be fun too, right?
Sending you an email right now!
Yay!
Great list! You’re correct that others will find this helpful. I’m game to join a tweet up and to distribute for you in Minneapolis.
Fantastic. Email me your address and I will send you books to scatter in Minneapolis. And I will keep you and everyone posted on future tweet ups
I would love to be a LAY Ambassador and have you guest post on my blog (about writing). Please contact me via email so we can discuss. Thanks!
Thanks! I will email you!
Hello! I would love to give out copies of your book…send them my way, email me for my address. I was thinking laundry mats, doctor offices, and maybe even the library. What do you think? Oh and coffee shops.
Also, I would love it if you would be do a guest blog post for me, on what ever you like in the way of advice for writers. I am a freelance writer (just starting out) and would appreciate any advice you may have. I have a small group of readers and would LOVE to expand. I’m currently working on my first novel and I’m afraid my blog gets put aside at times for that. I’m also the mother of a 3-year-old and have a 15-year-old stepson…they keep me busy.
If you like the kind of writing you see on my blog, would you consider letting me write for your blog occasionally?
I look forward to your reply. Good luck and I hope I can be of help!!
Lydia
Lydia,
Thanks! I will certainly email you about sending along books and about a guest post for your site. A mother who is blogging and penning a novel? Sounds kind of familiar
This is great… I’d love to help out. Guest posting and being a LAY ambassador–I think that would be terrific. I also love Twitter parties. (I’ve found the best times are week nights after the kids go to bed. I don’t have any kids yet, so I have no idea what time that actually is.)
I will email you! Thrilled to have another LAY ambassador and supporter on board!
Hello! I would love to be an ambassador! I may live in the middle of nowhere Wyoming but could distribute to multiple college sorority sisters throughout the west and family members!
Yay! I will email you for your address. Thank you!
would love to receive free copies of Life After Yes to be distributed to our local book club Flips Flipping Pages and to be promoted to others online too. SInce this would be a good book exposure here in Manila. Message me back thanks.
Great. I will send you a message. Thanks, Ella!
Just emailed you
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Indeed you did. Thrilled to have your support
Aidan-
Was so great to meet you at book club and so interesting to hear your perspective on our book group. Also, I am happy to help promote your book. We have considerable waiting times at my office (gotta love doctors) and we can strategically place some books in our waiting room. Its a young hip group of women who are seen here. Best of luck with everything!!
Eve
Aidan,
Would love to help anyway I can. I will be sending you an email shortly.
Look forward to your email, Rudri. Thank you for your support. Now and always
I would love to interview you on one of my blogs.
I write two.
One is LEAVE THE GUN TAKE THE CANOLI @the Sietch.org
and the other is the MOVING TARGET. I’ll send them to you if you are interested.
hi can i have you guest blog on my site, searchergrl.blogspot.com and would repost it to my other blogs searcher-gurl.livejournal.com and searchergurl.tumblr.com. am also thinking of interviewing you about facebook, twitter and how it helps you and your book be known to many (like me of course).
I would love to guest post! I’ve had some really interesting conversations over on my blog and on Twitter regarding male readers and writing male characters from first-person POV. I’d love to do a guest post on all of that if you’ll have me!
I would also love to have you guest post on my blog about your experience with Gotham Writer’s Workshop. You told me about it briefly in an email, but I’d love to know more, and I think some of my fellow aspiring authors would as well!
I would love to be a LAY ambassador! Miami could stand to read a little more
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am so excited and looking forward to reading and scattering your books here
Well, I’m behind the eight ball. I’m the only one here who hasn’t read Life After Yes yet. Kinda feel like Bridget Jones showing up to a garden party in a bunny suit. I better get moving!
Hi. My name is Jennifer and I’m a new blogger and an aspiring novelist. I bet you get e-mails and comments from people like me all the time. But I’m really inspired by this post: thinking of all the amazing steps you can take to get exposure. And I haven’t read your book (yet) but I have been following your blog for a while now and I have to say I LOVE your blog. So I’d love to help out. I have a blog which has some pretty wonderful followers that I’m sure would love to hear your voice and would probably also be inspired to read your book (if they haven’t already). These are some of the things you’ve mentioned that I’d definitely be interested in doing. You have my e-mail and I’d love to hear from you if you think any of these would be a good fit for you!
1. Interview me on your blog.
2. Review LAY on your site.
3. Guest post here or have me guest post chez toi.
4. Attend a Twitter party. (What are ideal times during the week to host these?)
5. Receive a bunch of free copies of LAY to distribute where you live. (I would especially love to do this because my blog anniversary and my birthday are both coming up and I’m hoping to do a huge giveaway event!)
Best of luck with everything. I’m hoping that we can help each other in the future.
Hi Aidan am so excited for your book, just wondering when will u consider giving copies here in Manila? would love to give my local book club flippers and my sister of your wonderful book