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Welcome to my little corner of the ether. This is where you will find information about my books and musings on life and love in New York City. To stay in the loop about all things ADR...


If you don't know where you are going, you might wind up someplace else.

Yogi Berra

I believe in fumbling, in stumbling, in wandering along.

I believe in asking questions and following them where they take us.

I believe in having ideas, big ones, and realizing them.

I believe in having dreams, big ones, and following them.

I believe in making maps and then tossing them.

I believe in pulling out the compass, checking it, and then putting it away.

I believe in looking forward, and back, and in.

I believe in spinning in place when that makes the most sense.

I believe in making mistakes.

I believe in goals, reaching them, rearranging them, honoring them.

I believe in going and coming and returning.

I believe in knowing, partially, imperfectly, where we want to be, where we want to go.

I believe that someplace else is sometimes the right place.

Where are you going? What do you believe in?

A Barbie Cake & A Battered Nose

Seeing Pink