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1. Masters of Love (The Atlantic)

2. Good Enough? That's Great (Daniel Jones, The New York Times)

3. Things That Will Destroy My Heterosexual Marriage Long Before Gay Marriage Ever Will. (, McSweeney's)

4. How to Make Love to the Same Person for the Rest of Your Life (Sheila Kohler, Psychology Today)

5. 50 Reasons to Love Being Married (Jennifer Cullen, The Huffington Post)

6. A Filmmaker Taped 112 Weddings. Here’s What He Learned About Marriage. (Time)

7 & 8. He said she was leaving. She ignored him. (The Week, originally NYT Modern Love) & follow-up I didn't save my marriage. I saved myself. (The Week, originally on Laura Munson's Haven Blog)

9. Our Place (Jamie Krug, Our Stroke of Luck)

10. Giving Up On Sex (John Kinnear, The Huffington Post)

11. One Step to a Happy Marriage (Leigh Koechner, The Huffington Post)

12. The Science of Us (New York Magazine)

13. The Lie and the Truth About Marriage (Glennon Melton)

14. My wife is not the same person that I married (The Matt Walsh Blog)

15. Let's Not Pretend to Be Who We Aren't (The New York Times)

16. When Brides Were Often Teenagers (The New York Times)

17. The All-or-Nothing Marriage (The New York Times)

18. The Luxury of Waiting for Marriage to Have Kids (The Atlantic)

19. 10 Reasons It's Totally Fine to Never Get Married (The Huffington Post)


Have you written or read any pieces on marriage that you'd be willing to share in the comments? Hope so!

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Posts on the Here Year & Marriage:

The Here Year

The Here Year Month #3: Marriage

The Here Year, June: Marriage (A Design So Vast)

On Marriage & Age

"We Are a Work-in-Progress" (A guest post)

"She's got my back, and I've got hers" (A guest post)

What My Therapist Said About Marriage

4.003 Days of Laughter (& Counting) (A guest post)

The Marriage & Sex Question

The Best Thing I've Done For My Marriage?

"All of a sudden, everything was different" (A guest post)

Why Do Married People Cheat?

11 Insights from Jane Green

Without a Net (A guest post)

The Marriage-Children Paradox

33 Ways to Make Our Marriages Happier (Part 1 of 3)

The Habits of the Happily Married (A Design So Vast)

33 Ways to Make Our Marriages Happier (Part 2 of 3)

"Do You Think We'll Make It Another Year?" (A guest post)

33 Ways to Make Our Marriages Happier (Part 3 of 3)

Big Night Out (A guest post)

On Social Media & Marriage

That's All (A guest post)

Marriage Is Fun! (A guest post)

Cracked: A Marriage Reflection

Marriage Is Fun!